THINGS YOU MUST TEACH YOUR FAMILY

February 13, 2024

MATT 4:23 And Jesus went about all Galilee, teaching in their synagogues, and preaching the gospel of the kingdom, and healing all manner of sickness and all manner of disease among the people.

THE WORD TEACHING IS IN THE BIBLE 109 TIMES
THE WORD TAUGHT IS IN THE BIBLE 89 TIMES
THE WORD TEACH IS IN THE BIBLE 25 TIMES
GOD IS A TEACHER, HE IMPACT KNOWLEDGE AND INFORMATION

YOU CAN NEVER RISE ABOVE WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN TAUGHT. THE TEACHING YOU RECEIVED CREATES YOUR PERSUASION
THE TEACHING YOU RECEIVE CREATES YOUR EXPERIENCES.
WHAT YOU BEEN TAUGHT HAS AN EFFECT ON THE TROUBLE YOU EXPERIENCE AND THE TROUBLE YOU AVOID.

YOU CAN ONLY TEACH WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN TAUGHT, WHAT YOU HAVE SEEN.

THE IMPRINT OF A FATHER IS MUCH HEAVIER, MUCH STRONGER THAN YOU COULD EVER IMAGINE, STRONGER THAN THE IMPRINT OF A MOTHER FOR LIFE CONDUCT AND BEHAVIOR.
MANY MEN IN PRISON HAVE CHRISTIAN MOTHERS NO CHRISTIAN FATHERS.
DAUGHTERS WHO NEVER RECEIVED AFFIRMATION, OR ENCOURAGING WORDS FROM A FATHER EXPERIENCE TURBULENCE IN THEIR EMOTIONS FOR THE REST OF THEIR LIFE.
THEY SUBCONSCIOUSLY LOOK FOR SOMEONE TO AFFIRM THEM BECAUSE THE BLESSING OF A FATHER IS SO POWERFUL, IS SO STRONG.

THE IMPORTANT OF TEACHING

TEACHING PREVENT TRAGEDY 2 CHRONICLES 15:3-4.
Now for a long season, Israel hath been without the true God, and without a teaching priest, and law.
4 But when they were in their trouble did turn unto the Lord God of Israel, and sought him, he was fond of them.

TEACHING REVEALS THE HEART OF A REBEL AND EXPOSES THE FLAWS OF CHARACTER JEREMIAH 32:33
They should have come to me for help, but they turned their backs to me. I tried to teach them again and again, but they would not listen to me. I tried to correct them, but they would not listen
CHARACTER IS REVEALED BY THEIR REACTION TO YOUR INSTRUCTION.

TEACHING IS COMMANDED BY JESUS MATTHEW 28:19..20
So go and make followers of all people in the world. Baptize them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit.
20 Teach them to obey everything that I have told you to do. You can be sure that I will always be with you. I will continue with you until the end of time.”

WE TEACH THROUGH THE SONGS AND THE MUSIC WE PERMIT AND ALLOW. COLOSSIANS 3:16.
Let the teaching of Christ live inside you richly. Use all wisdom to teach and counsel each other. Sing psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs with thankfulness in your hearts to God.

THE PURPOSE OF TEACHING IS TO CREATE CHANGE
COL 1:28
Him we preach and proclaim, warning and admonishing everyone and instructing everyone in all wisdom (comprehensive insight into the ways and purposes of God), that we may present every person mature (full-grown, fully initiated, complete, and perfect) in Christ (the Anointed One).

TEACHING IS LABORIOUS COL 1:29
To do this, I work and struggle using the great strength that Christ gives me. That strength is working in my life.

GOD WILL ASSIST YOU IN YOUR TEACHING EXO 4:12, 15
So go. I will be with you when you speak. I will give you the words to say.”
15 I will tell you what to say. Then you will tell Aaron, and I will help him say it well. I will tell both of you what to do.

YOU MUST TEACH WHAT GOD TEACHES YOU. EXO 24:12
The LORD said to Moses, “Come to me on the mountain. I have written my teachings and laws on two stone tablets. These teachings and laws are for the people. I will give you these stone tablets.”

GOD TEACHES YOU SO THAT YOU COULD TEACH OTHER THAT WOULD NOT ACCESS GOD.

GOD TEACHES OTHER THROUGH YOU.

         WHAT SHOULD YOU TEACH ? LEV 10:11

And you must teach the people about all the laws that the LORD gave them through Moses.

WHEN SHOULD YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY?
ALL THE TIME. DEUT 6:7.8.
Be sure to teach them to your children. Talk about these commands when you sit in your house and when you walk on the road. Talk about them when you lie down and when you get up.
8Tie them on your hands and wear them on your foreheads to help you remember my teachings

GOD IS A TEACHER AND HE WANTS US TO DEVELOP THE TEACHING HABIT

        WHY WE DO TEACH OUR FAMILY? 

TO AVOID SORROW, AVOID A POTENTIAL TRAGEDY THEY WILL EXPERIENCE
WE TEACH BECAUSE WE LOVE, WE LOVE THEIR LIFE

PEOPLE WILL BECOME BETTER THROUGH YOUR TEACHING

THEIR WEAKNESSES WILL DIE THROUGH YOUR TEACHING.

THEIR STRENGTH WILL BE MAGNIFIED THROUGH YOUR TEACHING

   SO WAYS YOU SHOULD TEACH YOUR FAMILY
  1. YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY THROUGH WHAT YOU DO.
    YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY THROUGH WHAT THEY SEE YOU DOING.
    IF THEY SEE YOU YELLING AT YOUR WIFE, THEY ASSUME THAT IS PERMISSIBLE, THEY ASSUME THAT IS APPROPRIATE CONDUCT
    IF THEY HEAR YOU CURSE OUT SOMEBODY WHEN YOU ARE DRIVING ON THE ROAD , THEY ASSUME THAT’S PERMISSIBLE .
    YOUR CONDUCT IS THEIR STANDARD
    YOUR BEHAVIOR BECAME THEIR PROTOTYPE, THEIR TEMPLATE.
    WHAT YOU DO, YOUR REACTION, YOU TEACH THEM THROUGH YOUR REACTION
    YOUR REACTION TO THE PRESENCE OF GREATNESS
    YOUR REACTION TO INSULT
    YOUR REACTION TO A REJECTION

WHAT SOMEONE SAID TO YOU WILL NEVER BE YOUR GREATEST PROBLEM, WHAT YOU SAY BACK TO THEM WILL BE YOUR GREATEST PROBLEM
YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY THROUGH YOUR REACTION.
IF THEY SEE YOU READ THE BIBLE, THEY WILL SAY MAYBE I SHOULD READ THE BIBLE
MY HOPE IS THAT MY FAMILY COULD SEE THE GOD THAT I AM PURSUING AND WANT TO PURSUE THE SAME GOD
IT’S REAL CRITICAL THAT OUR FAMILY SEE WHAT WE DO, THEY NEED TO SEE YOU READ

DON’T LET PEOPLE SABOTAGE YOUR INFLUENCE WITH A PERSON WHO OFFERED THEM

YOU CANNOT CRITICIZE YOUR PASTOR AT THE KITCHEN TABLE AND FIND FAULT AND EXPOSE FLAWS AND YOUR CHILDREN CONTINUE TO BE ABLE TO RECEIVE FROM THAT MAN OF GOD , IS OVER
SOMETHING HAPPENS TO A HUSBAND, IF YOU BADMOUTH YOUR WIFE TO YOUR CHILD, YOUR CHILD WILL NOT BE ABLE TO RECEIVE NOT EVEN CORRECTION FROM HIS MOTHER.
IF A WIFE BADMOUTH HER MOTHER TO A CHILD, THE CHILD WILL STOP ACCEPTING THE CORRECTION OF THE FATHER
WE TEACH OUR FAMILY THROUGH OUR EXAMPLE, WHAT WE DO

  1. WE TEACH OUR FAMILY THROUGH WHAT WE PERMIT.
    MY WIFE REPORTED ONE OF MY DAUGHTER TO ME AND I HAVE TO REMIND HER , YOUR MOTHER WHO IS MY WIFE IS THE
    QUEEN OF THIS HOUSE
    SHE WAS 23 WHEN I MARRIED HER, SHE WAS HERE BEFORE ANY OF YOU FOUR CHILDREN, SHE SHALL BE HERE WHEN YOU GONE TO YOUR VARIOUS DESTINATION
    AS LONG AS YOU ARE IN THIS HOUSE YOU SHALL HONOR HER AS THE QUEEN OF THIS HOUSE
    DON’T LET YOUR CHILDREN TALK DISRESPECTFUL TO YOUR MATE. DON’T PERMIT IT, MAKE IT A PAINFUL EXPERIENCE FOR THEM SO THAT IT’LL NEVER HAPPENS TWICE.

PAIN IS MORE MEMORABLE THAN PLEASURE

I WON’T PERMIT ANYONE HARASS MY CHILD
RESPONSIBILITY OF A FATHER IS TO RIGHTLY PROTECT HIS FAMILY.

WHAT DO YOU PERMIT TO HAPPEN IN YOUR HOME ?
TV PROGRAM THAT YOU PERMIT TO HAPPEN IN YOUR HOME
GOD COMMANDED US LOVE YOUR WIFE.
YOU TEACH THROUGH WHAT YOU PERMIT.
IF YOUR CHILD COULD SPEAK DISRESPECTFUL TO YOU, YOU MUST DISCERN WHAT TO DO TO THAT CHILD FOR SUCH BEHAVIOR NOT TO REPEAT ITSELF.

  1. YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY THROUGH WHAT YOU SAY TO THEM.
    WHAT YOU SAY TO THEM ABOUT GOD
    WHAT YOU SAY TO THEM ABOUT YOUR BELIEVE
    DIALOGUE IS NECESSARY FOR INFLUENCE.
    DIALOGUE IS NECESSARY FOR MENTORSHIP
    WHAT DO YOU SAY TO YOUR FAMILY ABOUT YOU?
    WHAT DO YOU SAY TO YOUR FAMILY ABOUT THEM ?
    ARE YOU SWIFT TO REVEAL THEIR DIFFERENCE, THEIR GIFTS, THEIR TALENTS THEIR SKILLS

WHAT IMPRESS YOU MOST ABOUT YOUR CHILDREN
DO THEY KNOW IT ?
IN DOG TRAINING THEY TEACH THAT IF A DOG MADE SOME MISTAKE, IMMEDIATELY HAVE HIM TO DO SOMETHING THE DOG DOES WELL 4 TIMES
YOU MUST COMPLEMENT A DOG TEN TIMES MORE THAN YOU CRITICIZE THEM

YOU CANNOT SAY TOO MANY GOOD THINGS TO YOUR FAMILY, YOU OR THOSE AROUND YOU.
THAT IS YOUR FIRST LOVE CYCLE. NO ONE ELSE SEES YOU LIKE YOUR FAMILY SEES YOU, YOUR FAMILY SEE YOUR FLAWS, YOUR MISTAKES, YOUR WEAKNESS, THEY OBSERVED YOUR CONTRADICTION OF NATURE AND YOU HAVE THEM, THEY OBSERVED THE THINGS IN YOU THAT COULD BE TORMENTING, STILL THEY TOLERATE YOU, THEY CARE, I DO BELIEVE BLOOD IS IMPORTANT, THERE IS A REASON GENEALOGY IS IN THE SCRIPTURE.

WHAT THEY HEAR YOU SAY ABOUT PEOPLE, ABOUT THINGS
SOME OF YOU SEE GOOD THINGS ABOUT YOUR CHILDREN YOU NEVER TALK ABOUT IT, YOU NEVER SAY IT WHY NOT
IF THE ONLY GOOD THING YOUR CHILDREN EVER HEAR ABOUT THEM IS FROM YOU, DO THEY HAVE ENOUGH

WHAT IF NO OTHER PERSON EVER GAVE COMPLEMENT TO YOUR FAMILY? THEY HAVE TO LIVE WITH THAT
YOUR COMFORTING WORD, YOUR KINDNESS SHOULD BE CONTINUE,

WHAT ARE THE SEVEN THINGS YOU LOVE MOST ABOUT YOUR WIFE ? HAVE YOU TOLD HER ? DO SHE HEARS IT OFTEN?

  1. YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY THROUGH WHAT YOU PURSUE.

MY FATHER PURSUE DISCIPLINE, HE PURSUE CONTENTMENT
WHAT DOES YOUR FAMILY SEE YOU EXCITED ABOUT

  1. YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY THROUGH THE HEROES YOU RESPECT.
    YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY THE PEOPLE YOU HAVE CHOSEN TO HONOR.
    KORAH BECAME EMBITTERED AFTER THE DECISION OF MOSES, HE PENETRATE THROUGH THE OTHER LEADERS, HIS FAMILY, FRIENDS AND GOD OPEN UP THE EARTH TO DESTROY THEM
    HIS FAMILY JOINED HIM TO PAY THE PRICE OF HIS DISHONOR TO THE MAN OF GOD.

THE NEXT DAY 14000 PEOPLE OF ISRAEL ROSE UP AGAINST MOSES AND GOD SEND FIRE AND SCORCH TO BURN THEM
THE BIBLE SAY THAT A PERSON WHO WILL OBEY HIS PROPHET WILL PROSPER, HE ALSO SAID TOUCH NOT MINE ANOINTED, DOES IT MEAN THEY ARE PERFECT? FLAWLESS? NO HE SAID DON’T RAISE YOUR HANDS AGAINST THEM, THEY ARE UNDER MY JURISDICTION, I WILL DEAL WITH THEM MY WAY.
WHO DO YOU HONOR?
WHO DO YOUR FAMILY KNOW YOU HONOR?
YOU SOW A SEED OF ANGER, HOSTILITY, BITTERNESS
YOU ARE TEACHING YOUR FAMILY THROUGH WHO YOU CHOSE TO HONOR AND DISHONOR.
EVERYTHING YOU DO SENDS A MESSAGE
SOMETIMES IS MISINTERPRETED AND I HAVE TO DEAL WITH THIS IN MY OWN LIFE, EVERYTHING I DO SENDS A MESSAGE
I’M TEACHING PEOPLE AROUND ME BY WHO I CHOOSE TO HONOR

6
YOU WILL TEACH YOUR FAMILY BY WHAT THEY SEE YOU READ.
FATHER’S SHOULD BE THE SPIRITUAL EXAMPLE OF TEACHER GOD.
WHAT DOES YOUR FAMILY SAW YOU READ ?
WHO TEACHES YOU ?
WHO DO THEY BELIEVE IS YOUR MENTOR WHO TEACHES YOU?

  1. YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY BY WHAT THEY HEAR YOU PRAY.
    YOUR FAMILY REALLY NEED TO HEAR YOU PRAY
    WE CAN CREATE A CREED FOR OUR FAMILY TO READ EVERY SINGLE DAY OF THEIR LIFE
    TEACH THEM TO REPEAT EVERY MORNING
    MY NAME IS PRAISE, I’M A MEMBER OF RAYMOND FAMILY, THIS IS WHAT WE BELIEVE, YOU MIGHT WANT TO CREATE A LITTLE LINES OF FIVE CREED
    I’LL BE HONEST
    I’LL FEAR GOD
    I’LL TREAT OTHERS WITH KINDNESSES
    YOU MIGHT WANT TO CREATE A CREED TO TEACH YOUR CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN
    I SUGGEST YOU EVEN FORM A PRAYER AT YOUR DINNER TABLE BECAUSE WHAT YOU KEEP HEARING YOU REMEMBER
    WHAT YOU KEEP HEARING PERSUADE YOU
    REPETITION CREATE PERSUASION
    I THINK I TRIVIALIZE THE MEAL PRAYER
    SCULPTURE OF PRAYER THAT BECOME UNFORGETTABLE

THANK YOU TODAY FOR YOUR PRESENCE IN OUR HOME
THANK YOU FOR YOUR PEACE, THANK YOU FOR YOUR PROVISION OF FOOD THAT STRENGTHEN OUR BODY
THANK YOU FOR ALL YOU DO IN THIS FAMILY TO YOU BE THE GLORY.

IT IS HIGHLY POSSIBLE YOU ARE THE ONLY THROUGH INTERCESSORS FOR YOUR FAMILY
IT’S POSSIBLE THERE IS NO ONE ELSE CALLING YOUR WIFE NAME EVERY SINGLE DAY IN THEIR PRAYER
SO SHE HAVE LIVE HER LIFE WITHOUT ANY PRAYER SUPPORT
THEY NEED TO HEAR YOU PRAY FOR THEM
SO THEY COULD LEARN HOW TO PRAY

JESUS TEACHES HIS DISCIPLES HOW TO PRAY

YOU MUST TEACH THEM THE ADVANTAGE OF WISDOM, THE ADVANTAGE OF KNOWLEDGE
YOU MUST TEACH THEM FROM YOUR PAIN
YOU MUST TEACH THEM FROM WHAT YOU DIDN’T RECEIVED
YOU MUST TEACH THEM WHAT YOU WISH SOMEBODY WOULD’VE TAUGHT YOU
YOU TEACH THEM BECAUSE YOU LOVE THEM, YOU TEACH THEM BECAUSE IS A DIVINE COMMAND AND YOU TEACH THEM BECAUSE IT’S A SEED THAT WILL COME BACK TO YOU IN THE LATER YEAR

AND THE PROBLEM YOU REFUSED TO SOLVE WHEN THEY WERE 5..8 YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH THE CONSEQUENCES OF THEIR DISOBEDIENCE

IF THEY STOP RESPECTING YOU, THEY WILL NOT RESPECT OTHER .

TEACHING IS COMMANDED BY JESUS MATTHEW 28:19..20
So go and make followers of all people in the world. Baptize them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit.
20 Teach them to obey everything that I have told you to do. You can be sure that I will always be with you. I will continue with you until the end of time.”

WE TEACH THROUGH THE SONGS AND THE MUSIC WE PERMIT AND ALLOW. COLOSSIANS 3:16.
Let the teaching of Christ live inside you richly. Use all wisdom to teach and counsel each other. Sing psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs with thankfulness in your hearts to God.

THE PURPOSE OF TEACHING IS TO CREATE CHANGE
COL 1:28
Him we preach and proclaim, warning and admonishing everyone and instructing everyone in all wisdom (comprehensive insight into the ways and purposes of God), that we may present every person mature (full-grown, fully initiated, complete, and perfect) in Christ (the Anointed One).

TEACHING IS LABORIOUS COL 1:29
To do this, I work and struggle using the great strength that Christ gives me. That strength is working in my life.

GOD WILL ASSIST YOU IN YOUR TEACHING EXO 4:12, 15
So go. I will be with you when you speak. I will give you the words to say.”
15 I will tell you what to say. Then you will tell Aaron, and I will help him say it well. I will tell both of you what to do.

YOU MUST TEACH WHAT GOD TEACH YOU. EXO 24:12
The LORD said to Moses, “Come to me on the mountain. I have written my teachings and laws on two stone tablets. These teachings and laws are for the people. I will give you these stone tablets.”

GOD TEACHES YOU SO THAT YOU COULD TEACH OTHER THAT WOULD NOT ACCESS GOD.

GOD TEACHES OTHER THROUGH YOU.

         WHAT SHOULD YOU TEACH ? LEV 10:11

And you must teach the people about all the laws that the LORD gave them through Moses.

WHEN SHOULD YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY?
ALL THE TIME. DEUT 6:7.8.
Be sure to teach them to your children. Talk about these commands when you sit in your house and when you walk on the road. Talk about them when you lie down and when you get up.
8Tie them on your hands and wear them on your foreheads to help you remember my teachings

GOD IS A TEACHER AND HE WANT US TO DEVELOP THE TEACHING HABIT

        WHY WE DO TEACH OUR FAMILY? 

TO AVOID SORROW, TO AVOID A POTENTIAL TRAGEDY THEY WILL EXPERIENCE
WE TEACH BECAUSE WE LOVE, WE LOVE THEIR LIFE

PEOPLE WILL BECOME BETTER THROUGH YOUR TEACHING

THEIR WEAKNESSES WILL DIE THROUGH YOUR TEACHING.

THEIR STRENGTH WILL BE MAGNIFY THROUGH YOUR TEACHING

   SO WAYS YOU SHOULD TEACH YOUR FAMILY
  1. YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY THROUGH WHAT YOU DO.
    YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY THROUGH WHAT THEY SEEN YOU DOING.
    IF THEY SEE YOU YELLING AT YOUR WIFE, THEY ASSUME THAT IS PERMISSIBLE, THEY ASSUME THAT IS APPROPRIATE CONDUCT
    IF THEY HEAR YOU CURSE OUT SOMEBODY WHEN YOU ARE DRIVING ON THE ROAD , THEY ASSUME THAT’S PERMISSIBLE .
    YOUR CONDUCT IS THEIR STANDARD
    YOUR BEHAVIOR BECAME THEIR PROTOTYPE, THEIR TEMPLATE.
    WHAT YOU DO, YOUR REACTION, YOU TEACH THEM THROUGH YOUR REACTION
    YOUR REACTION TO THE PRESENCE OF GREATNESS
    YOUR REACTION TO INSULT
    YOUR REACTION TO A REJECTION

WHAT SOMEONE SAID TO YOU WILL NEVER BE YOUR GREATEST PROBLEM, WHAT YOU SAY BACK TO THEM WILL BE YOUR GREATEST PROBLEM
YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY THROUGH YOUR REACTION.
IF THEY SEE YOU READ THE BIBLE, THEY WILL SAY MAYBE I SHOULD READ THE BIBLE
MY HOPE IS THAT MY FAMILY COULD SEE THE GOD THAT I AM PURSUING AND WANT TO PURSUE THE SAME GOD
IT’S REAL CRITICAL THAT OUR FAMILY SEE WHAT WE DO, THEY NEED TO SEE YOU READ

DON’T LET PEOPLE SABOTAGE YOUR INFLUENCE WITH A PERSON WHO OFFERED THEM

YOU CANNOT CRITICIZE YOUR PASTOR AT THE KITCHEN TABLE AND FIND FAULT AND EXPOSE FLAWS AND YOUR CHILDREN CONTINUE TO BE ABLE TO RECEIVE FROM THAT MAN OF GOD , IS OVER
SOMETHING HAPPENS TO A HUSBAND, IF YOU BADMOUTH YOUR WIFE TO YOUR CHILD, YOUR CHILD WILL NOT BE ABLE TO RECEIVE NOT EVEN CORRECTION FROM HIS MOTHER.
IF A WIFE BADMOUTH HER MOTHER TO A CHILD, THE CHILD WILL STOP ACCEPTING THE CORRECTION OF THE FATHER
WE TEACH OUR FAMILY THROUGH OUR EXAMPLE, WHAT WE DO

  1. WE TEACH OUR FAMILY THROUGH WHAT WE PERMIT.
    MY WIFE REPORTED ONE OF MY DAUGHTER TO ME AND I HAVE TO REMIND HER , YOUR MOTHER WHO IS MY WIFE IS THE
    QUEEN OF THIS HOUSE
    SHE WAS 23 WHEN I MARRIED HER, SHE WAS HERE BEFORE ANY OF YOU FOUR CHILDREN, SHE SHALL BE HERE WHEN YOU GONE TO YOUR VARIOUS DESTINATION
    AS LONG AS YOU ARE IN THIS HOUSE YOU SHALL HONOR HER AS THE QUEEN OF THIS HOUSE
    DON’T LET YOUR CHILDREN TALK DISRESPECTFUL TO YOUR MATE. DON’T PERMIT IT, MAKE IT A PAINFUL EXPERIENCE FOR THEM SO THAT IT’LL NEVER HAPPENS TWICE.

PAIN IS MORE MEMORABLE THAN PLEASURE

I WON’T PERMIT ANYONE HARASS MY CHILD
RESPONSIBILITY OF A FATHER IS TO RIGHTLY PROTECT HIS FAMILY.

WHAT DO YOU PERMIT TO HAPPEN IN YOUR HOME ?
TV PROGRAM THAT YOU PERMIT TO HAPPEN IN YOUR HOME
GOD COMMANDED US LOVE YOUR WIFE.
YOU TEACH THROUGH WHAT YOU PERMIT.
IF YOUR CHILD COULD SPEAK DISRESPECTFUL TO YOU, YOU MUST DISCERN WHAT TO DO TO THAT CHILD FOR SUCH BEHAVIOR NOT TO REPEAT ITSELF.

  1. YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY THROUGH WHAT YOU SAY TO THEM.
    WHAT YOU SAY TO THEM ABOUT GOD
    WHAT YOU SAY TO THEM ABOUT YOUR BELIEVE
    DIALOGUE IS NECESSARY FOR INFLUENCE.
    DIALOGUE IS NECESSARY FOR MENTORSHIP
    WHAT DO YOU SAY TO YOUR FAMILY ABOUT YOU?
    WHAT DO YOU SAY TO YOUR FAMILY ABOUT THEM ?
    ARE YOU SWIFT TO REVEAL THEIR DIFFERENCE, THEIR GIFTS, THEIR TALENTS THEIR SKILLS

WHAT IMPRESS YOU MOST ABOUT YOUR CHILDREN
DO THEY KNOW IT ?
IN DOG TRAINING THEY TEACH THAT IF A DOG MADE SOME MISTAKE, IMMEDIATELY HAVE HIM TO DO SOMETHING THE DOG DOES WELL 4 TIMES
YOU MUST COMPLEMENT A DOG TEN TIMES MORE THAN YOU CRITICIZE THEM

YOU CANNOT SAY TOO MANY GOOD THINGS TO YOUR FAMILY, YOU OR THOSE AROUND YOU.
THAT IS YOUR FIRST LOVE CYCLE. NO ONE ELSE SEES YOU LIKE YOUR FAMILY SEES YOU, YOUR FAMILY SEE YOUR FLAWS, YOUR MISTAKES, YOUR WEAKNESS, THEY OBSERVED YOUR CONTRADICTION OF NATURE AND YOU HAVE THEM, THEY OBSERVED THE THINGS IN YOU THAT COULD BE TORMENTING, STILL THEY TOLERATE YOU, THEY CARE, I DO BELIEVE BLOOD IS IMPORTANT, THERE IS A REASON GENEALOGY IS IN THE SCRIPTURE.

WHAT THEY HEAR YOU SAY ABOUT PEOPLE, ABOUT THINGS
SOME OF YOU SEE GOOD THINGS ABOUT YOUR CHILDREN YOU NEVER TALK ABOUT IT, YOU NEVER SAY IT WHY NOT
IF THE ONLY GOOD THING YOUR CHILDREN EVER HEAR ABOUT THEM IS FROM YOU, DO THEY HAVE ENOUGH

WHAT IF NO OTHER PERSON EVER GAVE COMPLEMENT TO YOUR FAMILY? THEY HAVE TO LIVE WITH THAT
YOUR COMFORTING WORD, YOUR KINDNESS SHOULD BE CONTINUE,

WHAT ARE THE SEVEN THINGS YOU LOVE MOST ABOUT YOUR WIFE ? HAVE YOU TOLD HER ? DO SHE HEARS IT OFTEN?

  1. YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY THROUGH WHAT YOU PURSUE.

MY FATHER PURSUE DISCIPLINE, HE PURSUE CONTENTMENT
WHAT DOES YOUR FAMILY SEE YOU EXCITED ABOUT

  1. YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY THROUGH THE HEROES YOU RESPECT.
    YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY THE PEOPLE YOU HAVE CHOSEN TO HONOR.
    KORAH BECAME EMBITTERED AFTER THE DECISION OF MOSES, HE PENETRATE THROUGH THE OTHER LEADERS, HIS FAMILY, FRIENDS AND GOD OPEN UP THE EARTH TO DESTROY THEM
    HIS FAMILY JOINED HIM TO PAY THE PRICE OF HIS DISHONOR TO THE MAN OF GOD.

THE NEXT DAY 14000 PEOPLE OF ISRAEL ROSE UP AGAINST MOSES AND GOD SEND FIRE AND SCORCH TO BURN THEM
THE BIBLE SAY THAT A PERSON WHO WILL OBEY HIS PROPHET WILL PROSPER, HE ALSO SAID TOUCH NOT MINE ANOINTED, DOES IT MEAN THEY ARE PERFECT? FLAWLESS? NO HE SAID DON’T RAISE YOUR HANDS AGAINST THEM, THEY ARE UNDER MY JURISDICTION, I WILL DEAL WITH THEM MY WAY.
WHO DO YOU HONOR?
WHO DO YOUR FAMILY KNOW YOU HONOR?
YOU SOW A SEED OF ANGER, HOSTILITY, BITTERNESS
YOU ARE TEACHING YOUR FAMILY THROUGH WHO YOU CHOSE TO HONOR AND DISHONOR.
EVERYTHING YOU DO SENDS A MESSAGE
SOMETIMES IS MISINTERPRETED AND I HAVE TO DEAL WITH THIS IN MY OWN LIFE, EVERYTHING I DO SENDS A MESSAGE
I’M TEACHING PEOPLE AROUND ME BY WHO I CHOOSE TO HONOR

6
YOU WILL TEACH YOUR FAMILY BY WHAT THEY SEE YOU READ.
FATHER’S SHOULD BE THE SPIRITUAL EXAMPLE OF TEACHER GOD.
WHAT DOES YOUR FAMILY SAW YOU READ ?
WHO TEACHES YOU ?
WHO DO THEY BELIEVE IS YOUR MENTOR WHO TEACHES YOU?

  1. YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY BY WHAT THEY HEAR YOU PRAY.
    YOUR FAMILY REALLY NEED TO HEAR YOU PRAY
    WE CAN CREATE A CREED FOR OUR FAMILY TO READ EVERY SINGLE DAY OF THEIR LIFE
    TEACH THEM TO REPEAT EVERY MORNING
    MY NAME IS PRAISE, I’M A MEMBER OF RAYMOND FAMILY, THIS IS WHAT WE BELIEVE, YOU MIGHT WANT TO CREATE A LITTLE LINES OF FIVE CREED
    I’LL BE HONEST
    I’LL FEAR GOD
    I’LL TREAT OTHERS WITH KINDNESSES
    YOU MIGHT WANT TO CREATE A CREED TO TEACH YOUR CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN
    I SUGGEST YOU EVEN FORM A PRAYER AT YOUR DINNER TABLE BECAUSE WHAT YOU KEEP HEARING YOU REMEMBER
    WHAT YOU KEEP HEARING PERSUADE YOU
    REPETITION CREATE PERSUASION
    I THINK I TRIVIALIZE THE MEAL PRAYER
    SCULPTURE OF PRAYER THAT BECOME UNFORGETTABLE

THANK YOU TODAY FOR YOUR PRESENCE IN OUR HOME
THANK YOU FOR YOUR PEACE, THANK YOU FOR YOUR PROVISION OF FOOD THAT STRENGTHEN OUR BODY
THANK YOU FOR ALL YOU DO IN THIS FAMILY TO YOU BE THE GLORY.

IT IS HIGHLY POSSIBLE YOU ARE THE ONLY THROUGH INTERCESSORS FOR YOUR FAMILY
IT’S POSSIBLE THERE IS NO ONE ELSE CALLING YOUR WIFE NAME EVERY SINGLE DAY IN THEIR PRAYER
SO SHE HAVE LIVE HER LIFE WITHOUT ANY PRAYER SUPPORT
THEY NEED TO HEAR YOU PRAY FOR THEM
SO THEY COULD LEARN HOW TO PRAY

JESUS TEACHES HIS DISCIPLES HOW TO PRAY

YOU MUST TEACH THEM THE ADVANTAGE OF WISDOM, THE ADVANTAGE OF KNOWLEDGE
YOU MUST TEACH THEM FROM YOUR PAIN
YOU MUST TEACH THEM FROM WHAT YOU DIDN’T RECEIVED
YOU MUST TEACH THEM WHAT YOU WISH SOMEBODY WOULD’VE TAUGHT YOU
YOU TEACH THEM BECAUSE YOU LOVE THEM, YOU TEACH THEM BECAUSE IS A DIVINE COMMAND AND YOU TEACH THEM BECAUSE IT’S A SEED THAT WILL COME BACK TO YOU IN THE LATER YEAR

AND THE PROBLEM YOU REFUSED TO SOLVE WHEN THEY WERE 5..8 YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH THE CONSEQUENCES OF THEIR DISOBEDIENCE

IF THEY STOP RESPECTING YOU, THEY WILL NOT RESPECT OTHER.

Be sure to teach them to your children. Talk about these commands when you sit in your house and when you walk on the road. Talk about them when you lie down and when you get up.
8Tie them on your hands and wear them on your foreheads to help you remember my teachings

GOD IS A TEACHER AND HE WANT US TO DEVELOP THE TEACHING HABIT

        WHY WE DO TEACH OUR FAMILY? 

TO AVOID SORROW, TO AVOID A POTENTIAL TRAGEDY THEY WILL EXPERIENCE
WE TEACH BECAUSE WE LOVE, WE LOVE THEIR LIFE

PEOPLE WILL BECOME BETTER THROUGH YOUR TEACHING

THEIR WEAKNESSES WILL DIE THROUGH YOUR TEACHING.

THEIR STRENGTH WILL BE MAGNIFY THROUGH YOUR TEACHING

   SO WAYS YOU SHOULD TEACH YOUR FAMILY
  1. YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY THROUGH WHAT YOU DO.
    YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY THROUGH WHAT THEY SEEN YOU DOING.
    IF THEY SEE YOU YELLING AT YOUR WIFE, THEY ASSUME THAT IS PERMISSIBLE, THEY ASSUME THAT IS APPROPRIATE CONDUCT
    IF THEY HEAR YOU CURSE OUT SOMEBODY WHEN YOU ARE DRIVING ON THE ROAD , THEY ASSUME THAT’S PERMISSIBLE .
    YOUR CONDUCT IS THEIR STANDARD
    YOUR BEHAVIOR BECAME THEIR PROTOTYPE, THEIR TEMPLATE.

WHAT YOU DO, YOUR REACTION, YOU TEACH THEM THROUGH YOUR REACTION
YOUR REACTION TO THE PRESENCE OF GREATNESS
YOUR REACTION TO INSULT
YOUR REACTION TO A REJECTION

WHAT SOMEONE SAID TO YOU WILL NEVER BE YOUR GREATEST PROBLEM, WHAT YOU SAY BACK TO THEM WILL BE YOUR GREATEST PROBLEM
YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY THROUGH YOUR REACTION.
IF THEY SEE YOU READ THE BIBLE, THEY WILL SAY MAYBE I SHOULD READ THE BIBLE
MY HOPE IS THAT MY FAMILY COULD SEE THE GOD THAT I AM PURSUING AND WANT TO PURSUE THE SAME GOD
IT’S REAL CRITICAL THAT OUR FAMILY SEE WHAT WE DO, THEY NEED TO SEE YOU READ

DON’T LET PEOPLE SABOTAGE YOUR INFLUENCE WITH A PERSON WHO OFFERED THEM

YOU CANNOT CRITICIZE YOUR PASTOR AT THE KITCHEN TABLE AND FIND FAULT AND EXPOSE FLAWS AND YOUR CHILDREN CONTINUE TO BE ABLE TO RECEIVE FROM THAT MAN OF GOD , IS OVER
SOMETHING HAPPENS TO A HUSBAND, IF YOU BADMOUTH YOUR WIFE TO YOUR CHILD, YOUR CHILD WILL NOT BE ABLE TO RECEIVE NOT EVEN CORRECTION FROM HIS MOTHER.
IF A WIFE BADMOUTH HER MOTHER TO A CHILD, THE CHILD WILL STOP ACCEPTING THE CORRECTION OF THE FATHER
WE TEACH OUR FAMILY THROUGH OUR EXAMPLE, WHAT WE DO

  1. WE TEACH OUR FAMILY THROUGH WHAT WE PERMIT.
    MY WIFE REPORTED ONE OF MY DAUGHTER TO ME AND I HAVE TO REMIND HER , YOUR MOTHER WHO IS MY WIFE IS THE
    QUEEN OF THIS HOUSE
    SHE WAS 23 WHEN I MARRIED HER, SHE WAS HERE BEFORE ANY OF YOU FOUR

SHE WAS 23 WHEN I MARRIED HER, SHE WAS HERE BEFORE ANY OF YOU FOUR CHILDREN, SHE SHALL BE HERE WHEN YOU GONE TO YOUR VARIOUS DESTINATION
AS LONG AS YOU ARE IN THIS HOUSE YOU SHALL HONOR HER AS THE QUEEN OF THIS HOUSE
DON’T LET YOUR CHILDREN TALK DISRESPECTFUL TO YOUR MATE. DON’T PERMIT IT, MAKE IT A PAINFUL EXPERIENCE FOR THEM SO THAT IT’LL NEVER HAPPENS TWICE.

PAIN IS MORE MEMORABLE THAN PLEASURE

I WON’T PERMIT ANYONE HARASS MY CHILD
RESPONSIBILITY OF A FATHER IS TO RIGHTLY PROTECT HIS FAMILY.

WHAT DO YOU PERMIT TO HAPPEN IN YOUR HOME ?
TV PROGRAM THAT YOU PERMIT TO HAPPEN IN YOUR HOME
GOD COMMANDED US LOVE YOUR WIFE.
YOU TEACH THROUGH WHAT YOU PERMIT.
IF YOUR CHILD COULD SPEAK DISRESPECTFUL TO YOU, YOU MUST DISCERN WHAT TO DO TO THAT CHILD FOR SUCH BEHAVIOR NOT TO REPEAT ITSELF.

  1. YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY THROUGH WHAT YOU SAY TO THEM.
    WHAT YOU SAY TO THEM ABOUT GOD
    WHAT YOU SAY TO THEM ABOUT YOUR BELIEVE
    DIALOGUE IS NECESSARY FOR INFLUENCE.
    DIALOGUE IS NECESSARY FOR MENTORSHIP
    WHAT DO YOU SAY TO YOUR FAMILY ABOUT YOU?
    WHAT DO YOU SAY TO YOUR FAMILY ABOUT THEM ?
    ARE YOU SWIFT TO REVEAL THEIR DIFFERENCE, THEIR GIFTS, THEIR TALENTS THEIR SKILL

WHAT IMPRESS YOU MOST ABOUT YOUR CHILDREN
DO THEY KNOW IT ?
IN DOG TRAINING THEY TEACH THAT IF A DOG MADE SOME MISTAKE, IMMEDIATELY HAVE HIM TO DO SOMETHING THE DOG DOES WELL 4 TIMES
YOU MUST COMPLEMENT A DOG TEN TIMES MORE THAN YOU CRITICIZE THEM

YOU CANNOT SAY TOO MANY GOOD THINGS TO YOUR FAMILY, YOU OR THOSE AROUND YOU.
THAT IS YOUR FIRST LOVE CYCLE. NO ONE ELSE SEES YOU LIKE YOUR FAMILY SEES YOU, YOUR FAMILY SEE YOUR FLAWS, YOUR MISTAKES, YOUR WEAKNESS, THEY OBSERVED YOUR CONTRADICTION OF NATURE AND YOU HAVE THEM, THEY OBSERVED THE THINGS IN YOU THAT COULD BE TORMENTING, STILL THEY TOLERATE YOU, THEY CARE, I DO BELIEVE BLOOD IS IMPORTANT, THERE IS A REASON GENEALOGY IS IN THE SCRIPTURE.

WHAT THEY HEAR YOU SAY ABOUT PEOPLE, ABOUT THINGS
SOME OF YOU SEE GOOD THINGS ABOUT YOUR CHILDREN YOU NEVER TALK ABOUT IT, YOU NEVER SAY IT WHY NOT
IF THE ONLY GOOD THING YOUR CHILDREN EVER HEAR ABOUT THEM IS FROM YOU, DO THEY HAVE ENOUGH

WHAT IF NO OTHER PERSON EVER GAVE COMPLEMENT TO YOUR FAMILY? THEY HAVE TO LIVE WITH THAT
YOUR COMFORTING WORD, YOUR KINDNESS SHOULD BE CONTINUE,

WHAT ARE THE SEVEN THINGS YOU LOVE MOST ABOUT YOUR WIFE ? HAVE YOU TOLD HER ? DO SHE HEARS IT OFTEN?

  1. YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY THROUGH WHAT YOU PURSUE.

MY FATHER PURSUE DISCIPLINE, HE PURSUE CONTENTMENT
WHAT DOES YOUR FAMILY SEE YOU EXCITED ABOUT

  1. YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY THROUGH THE HEROES YOU RESPECT.
    YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY THE PEOPLE YOU HAVE CHOSEN TO HONOR.
    KORAH BECAME EMBITTERED AFTER THE DECISION OF MOSES, HE PENETRATE THROUGH THE OTHER LEADERS, HIS FAMILY, FRIENDS AND GOD OPEN UP THE EARTH TO DESTROY THEM
    HIS FAMILY JOINED HIM TO PAY THE PRICE OF HIS DISHONOR TO THE MAN OF GOD.

THE NEXT DAY 14000 PEOPLE OF ISRAEL ROSE UP AGAINST MOSES AND GOD SEND FIRE AND SCORCH TO BURN THEM
THE BIBLE SAY THAT A PERSON WHO WILL OBEY HIS PROPHET WILL PROSPER, HE ALSO SAID TOUCH NOT MINE ANOINTED, DOES IT MEAN THEY ARE PERFECT? FLAWLESS? NO HE SAID DON’T RAISE YOUR HANDS AGAINST THEM, THEY ARE UNDER MY JURISDICTION, I WILL DEAL WITH THEM MY WAY.
WHO DO YOU HONOR?
WHO DO YOUR FAMILY KNOW YOU HONOR?
YOU SOW A SEED OF ANGER, HOSTILITY, BITTERNESS
YOU ARE TEACHING YOUR FAMILY THROUGH WHO YOU CHOSE TO HONOR AND DISHONOR.
EVERYTHING YOU DO SENDS A MESSAGE
SOMETIMES IS MISINTERPRETED AND I HAVE TO DEAL WITH THIS IN MY OWN LIFE, EVERYTHING I DO SENDS A MESSAGE
I’M TEACHING PEOPLE AROUND ME BY WHO I CHOOSE TO HONOR

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YOU WILL TEACH YOUR FAMILY BY WHAT THEY SEE YOU READ.
FATHER’S SHOULD BE THE SPIRITUAL EXAMPLE OF TEACHER GOD.
WHAT DOES YOUR FAMILY SAW YOU READ ?
WHO TEACHES YOU ?
WHO DO THEY BELIEVE IS YOUR MENTOR WHO TEACHES YOU?

  1. YOU TEACH YOUR FAMILY BY WHAT THEY HEAR YOU PRAY.
    YOUR FAMILY REALLY NEED TO HEAR YOU PRAY
    WE CAN CREATE A CREED FOR OUR FAMILY TO READ EVERY SINGLE DAY OF THEIR LIFE
    TEACH THEM TO REPEAT EVERY MORNING
    MY NAME IS PRAISE, I’M A MEMBER OF RAYMOND FAMILY, THIS IS WHAT WE BELIEVE, YOU MIGHT WANT TO CREATE A LITTLE LINES OF FIVE CREED
    I’LL BE HONEST
    I’LL FEAR GOD
    I’LL TREAT OTHERS WITH KINDNESSES
    YOU MIGHT WANT TO CREATE A CREED TO TEACH YOUR CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN
    I SUGGEST YOU EVEN FORM A PRAYER AT YOUR DINNER TABLE BECAUSE WHAT YOU KEEP HEARING YOU REMEMBER
    WHAT YOU KEEP HEARING PERSUADE YOU
    REPETITION CREATE PERSUASION
    I THINK I TRIVIALIZE THE MEAL PRAYER
    SCULPTURE OF PRAYER THAT BECOME UNFORGETTABLE

THANK YOU TODAY FOR YOUR PRESENCE IN OUR HOME
THANK YOU FOR YOUR PEACE, THANK YOU FOR YOUR PROVISION OF FOOD THAT STRENGTHEN OUR BODY
THANK YOU FOR ALL YOU DO IN THIS FAMILY TO YOU BE THE GLORY.

IT IS HIGHLY POSSIBLE YOU ARE THE ONLY THROUGH INTERCESSORS FOR YOUR FAMILY
IT’S POSSIBLE THERE IS NO ONE ELSE CALLING YOUR WIFE NAME EVERY SINGLE DAY IN THEIR PRAYER
SO SHE HAVE LIVE HER LIFE WITHOUT ANY PRAYER SUPPORT
THEY NEED TO HEAR YOU PRAY FOR THEM
SO THEY COULD LEARN HOW TO PRAY

JESUS TEACHES HIS DISCIPLES HOW TO PRAY

YOU MUST TEACH THEM THE ADVANTAGE OF WISDOM, THE ADVANTAGE OF KNOWLEDGE
YOU MUST TEACH THEM FROM YOUR PAIN
YOU MUST TEACH THEM FROM WHAT YOU DIDN’T RECEIVED
YOU MUST TEACH THEM WHAT YOU WISH SOMEBODY WOULD’VE TAUGHT YOU
YOU TEACH THEM BECAUSE YOU LOVE THEM, YOU TEACH THEM BECAUSE IS A DIVINE COMMAND AND YOU TEACH THEM BECAUSE IT’S A SEED THAT WILL COME BACK TO YOU IN THE LATER YEAR

AND THE PROBLEM YOU REFUSED TO SOLVE WHEN THEY WERE 5..8 YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH THE CONSEQUENCES OF THEIR DISOBEDIENCE

IF THEY STOP RESPECTING YOU, THEY WILL NOT RESPECT OTHER.

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Pastor Raymond Aghariaha Osakpeme

Raymond Aghariaha Osakpeme is a Nigerian pastor and the founder of Tabernacle of love and mercy bible church and the presiding pastor of Atmosphere for answer and change in , Ponte San Pietro , Via San Clemente, 56, Bergamo, Italy. He is also an author, writer and a wise counselor.

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